Relationship advice from 2x divorced people?
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Since we were young kids, my sister & cousin Kellie & I were indoctrinated every day to say “men are good for 2 things” “shit and nothing”. When I was in my 20's, I began to see it in a new way.
1) starting with my gram (who taught us to say this)--every woman in our family had been divorced at least twice--is there a wonder? (with this attitude towards men?)
2) or did they get the attitude after they’d been divorced at least twice? (every last one of our female family members in every generation that I have met) (ok, ONE was widow 2x NEVER divorced--SHE NEVER SAID ONE BAD THING about "all men")
3) Did I want to end up like them?
4) They had no part in at least--choosing/ or accepting any of these men?
most importantly
5) What does this say about my baby brother? my nephews???
When I'm wrong, I admit it! When I have learned bullshit info--I'm gonna tell you that too! (THIS BULLSHIT INFO (all men are good for "shit" and "nothing") HELPED ME PICK THE BIGGEST LOSER I’VE EVER HEARD OF--check my ep below) Now, ZERO sex for over 17 ½ years! BEST WIFE EVER BILLIONAIRE INSTEAD! I WANT CHOICES IN EVERYTHING AND EVERY PERSON in my life! I’M DAMN WELL WORTH IT!
There are so many losers in this world! I won't be one of them!
My definition of a loser? Anybody who has zero success in any area of their life and refuses to take responsibility for any of their failures and blames it on everything and everyone else! as if they had no part in it at all!
They take zero responsibility for anything but always complain about it!
They will never ever win! because there is always something you can do!
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make a choice---stop the thing
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choice--start a new thing
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stfu, stop complaining about it if it’s already over!! and stop feeling bad about it
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teach someone what you’ve learned (without judging, bitterness or hypocrisy)
If you ASK for advice make sure it's from someone you would trade places with. if you want what someone else has in an area, ask them for advice in that area. If you want to be bitter and alone, or bitter and with a bad man/ woman/ relationship, ask bitter alone/ people in bad relationships
I want to note: MY FEMALE FAMILY --due to childhood trauma in their own lives, FELT UNWORTHY (of anything good--relationships, health, money, even God) which led to TERRIBLE choices FINANCIALLY AND THEY CHOSE THESE LOSER "MEN" (abusive, rapists, cheaters etc) because THEY THOUGHT THEY "needed the money" and "didn't want to be alone" and also for some -------ED UP REASON I STILL cannot understand "having a man" (even THE SH---IEST OF SH---) EVEN TODAY In 2025, just "having a man" (SH--- OR GREAT) means "I'm something" "I'm a real woman" "I'm valuable" REALITY CHECK: IF YOU ARE NOT VALUABLE ALONE, NO PERSON, PLACE, THING (MONEY INCLUDED) WILL MAKE YOU VALUABLE! YOU ARE PRICELESS BECAUSE GOD MADE YOU IN HIS image! NOTHING CAN ADD OR TAKE AWAY FROM THAT!
Liberty V Justice CEO I'm Worth It Inc.
Watch When a person is self sufficient they won't be abused
